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All Dressed Up And Nowhere to Go<br>
<p>All Dressed Up and Nowhere to Go</p>
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<p>The next time I called my bank, I was told the woman was no longer working there and I would have to make a new application for a mortgage as they couldn't find the last one that I had filled out.</p> <p>That was strike three. Before I could even tell myself to give it up because I had given it my best effort and it wasn't happening, my landlord's bank pulled the plug and they gave me two weeks to move. I couldn't understand how I could have visualized the mortgage being approved and being able to remain there, and it still wasn't happening, and I'm usually an excellent visualizer. But the universe had a better grasp of the situation than I did.</p> <p>After I moved, two things happened immediately. The first one was that an announcement appeared in the newspaper that the city had approved a low-cost housing project across the road from me and the second thing was that the major road that was the only access to my house, was torn up and, for the next two years, no one could get in or out of the development without going the back roads.</p> <p>The upshot is that the bank that was so anxious to get rid of me as a tenant and too impatient to wait until I could get a mortgage so I could buy the property, had to wait more than two years to find a buyer. From time to time, I would drive by the house to see if there were any occupants but the house stood empty until well after the access road was repaired more than two years later.</p> <p>I don't know if the low-cost housing project lowered the value of the houses in the neighborhood, but if it did, I might not have been able to recoup my money if I wanted to sell my house. And I might have wanted to sell my house if the torn up road prevented my clients from getting to me.</p> <p>This three times philosophy of pulling back and reassessing a situation when things aren't working out for me after I have tried my best three times, has stood me in good stead all of my adult life. By my bank losing my application three times and my landlord's bank not wanting to wait until I got a mortgage, I was saved from making a very costly mistake. In fact, it's a philosophy that has saved me from making many costly mistakes throughout my life <a href="http://sweetxue.sarjakuvablogit.com/2013...prise-or-house/">sarjakuvablogit</a>.</p>
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