A Private Investigator Tells All by Karen Wakowski

in Here is your first Forum Mon Jul 15, 2013 1:38 pm
by chainsaw • 299 Posts

In the 13 years I`ve been a private investigator I`ve seen the following scenario play out time and again: a distraught spouse or lover finally gets the courage to end their relationship with their cheating partner after having their infidelity shoved in their face one to many times, after having been emotionally and psychologically abused, and by this point they`re in a very sorry state and display all the classical signs of a domestic violent abuse victim: depression, low self-esteem, anxiety, self-blaming, etc <a href="http://wanghuahua.seomax.co/2013/07/12/f...le-enhancement/">wanghuahua</a>. But the thing is that their lover wasn`t the typical abuser, they didn`t lay a hand on them and almost never raised their voice in anger, but they have hurt and diminished their lover to the point where they are physically ill, psychologically scarred, and may even require hospitalization because of their multiple sexual affairs that they conducted with complete disregard for their partner and their feelings.</p>
<p>Don`t live in denial thinking that it can`t happen to you, remember that the earlier you catch it the less you`ll be hurt and humiliated, and remember the following major warnings signs:</p>
<p>1. By far, the most important thing I want you to keep in mind is the universal indicator of infidelity, it occurs in every single case: sudden behavior changes. If I could drill just one thing to look for into your head that you`ll remember for the rest of your life, it`s this one <a href="http://www.gzpollyshoes.com">gzpollyshoes</a>. Though you need to remember that this doesn`t automatically mean there`s cheating, of course, just because they suddenly start acting weird doesn`t automatically mean they`re cheating on you.</p>
<p>They suddenly start wanting to go places by themselves. They stay out late at meetings they didn`t tell you they would be having or other events they didn`t tell you about ahead of time. They`re often on the phone at times they didn`t used to be. They start participating in sports, hobbies, or clubs they never used to be interested in and it feels like they don`t want you to participate.</p>
<p>2 <a href="http://www.chinese-printing.com/chinese_...contact_us.html">offset printing</a>. They suddenly start working out and losing weight, they join a gym, get a trainer, etc. Also, basically anything else that would improve their appearance such as nice, new clothes or jewelry, cologne/perfume, or they suddenly develop an interest in fashion they never had before.</p>

Scroll up

0 Members and 1 Guest are online.

We welcome our newest member: VernaSawyer
Board Statistics
The forum has 341 topics and 344 posts.